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 13:16 | 19/Apr/2008 | 0 Comment(s)
My Sweetu

Ravi Manik

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 19:47 | 19/Mar/2008 | 1 Comment(s)
If We Die

Company that we are working will easily replace us in mater of days. The society around us may not even miss us. But the family we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we are at our best with the rest, and showcase our worst to the best. People we love the most are the ones we hurt the most. For we reserve our nasty best for our nearest and dearest ones.

RAVI.

 

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 20:19 | 14/Mar/2008 | 4 Comment(s)
Thought

There once was a king who offered a prize to the artist who would paint the best picture of peace. Many artists tried. But there were only two the king really liked, and he had to choose between them.

 

One picture was of a calm lake. The lake was a perfect mirror for peaceful towering mountains all around it. Overhead was blue sky with fluffy white clouds. The other picture had mountains, too. But these were rugged and bare. Above was an angry sky, from which rain fell and in which lightning played. Down the side of the mountain tumbled a foaming waterfall. But when the king looked closely, he saw behind the waterfall a tiny bush growing in a crack in the rock. In the bush a mother bird had built her nest. There in the midst of the rush of angry water, sat the mother bird on her nest in perfect peace.

 

The king chose the second picture. “Because,” explained the king, “peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. Peace means to be in the midst of all those things and still be calm in your heart. That is the real meaning of PEACE.

                                Ravi Manik

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 18:05 | 5/Mar/2008 | 4 Comment(s)
Still Waiting …

 

Still Waiting ……………….

Hi Sweetheart, I just came to say sorry. I realized how stupid I was to fight for the smallest of things and not let you have your way. I am sorry about fighting for the right side of the bed: you can sleep there hereafter. The bathroom tiles can be maroon and not blue. You Know what? I know it’s too hard to believe, but I’ve started closing the bathroom door after I am done using it. It won’t bother you anymore Honey. I’ve given up booze time with my friends only so that I can hold your hands in the evening and watch you laugh for eternity. I’ve understood that I have a life apart from work and I will never keep you waiting all day just so that you can see my face after my meetings.

 

Hey look at me! I am wearing the tie and cologne you got me on our engagement. We’ll go for go-kart today and I assure you that I won’t cancel out on you because of last minute work. Please give me a chance and trust me when I say that I won’t expect you to be that gorgeous wife of the great vice president of the fortune company. I swear I Love you more than my Jack Daniel. Sweets, please don’t pull my ear because I am lying to you today. I want to take care of myself so that I can live longer with you.

 

Remember, you always told me that you wanted to go to the Bahamas on a holiday, sit by the beach with the sound of waves pampering our ears, open sky and bonfire. Hmmm... We’re going there this valentine’s. It’s been years since I celebrated this day with you.

 

We can go for those late night strolls and early morning aerobics. In fact, we can go to your favourite instructor and not the guy I wanted to go to, Am not just saying all of this but I want everything about my life to be your way.

 

Am sorry for all those things I said and did. Today I realize that I did reserve my nasty side for you. I shouldn’t have fought about your mother coming over to invest a month with us. She can stay here as long as she wants. I am sorry for being abusive. I am sorry for hanging up on you and walking out on you in between conversation. Am sorry for not taking the time to enjoy the food you cooked for me with so much love.

 

On that day you asked me if I could drop you for the wedding and I should not have refused. I should not have given reasons. But you still understood and were ready to take an auto-rickshaw. You asked me for change to give the auto-walla but I was in a rush and asked you to manage. Oh what a fool I was. If that day I had let you have it your way, the bus wouldn’t have rammed into you while you were crossing the road to get change. Please don’t be mad at me. If I knew that that was your last morning with me, I never would have done it. I’ve realised that any day can be the last day of life honey.

 

Two years have gone by and I’ve been coming here every evening just as I promised. But you’ve changed now. You’re refusing to sit next to me and hold my hand. You’ve chosen sleep to me. But how long will you sleep? Wake up! Wake up for my sake. Just look at once. I brought your favourite chocolates, those red balloons and carnations. Wake up to me darling. I’ve been begging you for forgiveness for two years and you still haven’t accepted my apologies?

 

I’ve realized so much about life doll. Today I can see your point of view. I have the maturity to flow where I should and take stands wherever necessary, but all of this is still not bringing you back to me. Is that thing called god even listening to me? Time is precious and it’s slipping away and it feels like I’ve been waiting for you all of my life. Sugar plum, there’s no time to even love, then where is the time to fight? Talk to me. Come back to me angle.

 

RAVI    MANIK

After reading this one thing I would say one thing to you all is that :-

Express your LOVE for others, in a way they understand, when people are around, when they need it most.

 

 

 

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 12:17 | 12/Jan/2008 | 7 Comment(s)
selfless love

Selfless Love

When U Were Only 5 Yrs Old, I Said

I LoveU...

U Asked Me: "What Is It?"

When U Were 15 Yrs Old, I Said

I LoveU...

U Blushed.. U Look Down And Smile..  

When U Were 20 Yrs Old, I Said

I LoveU...

U Put Ur Head On My Shoulder And Hold My Hand... Afraid That I Might Dissapear...

When U Were 25 Yrs Old, I Said

I LoveU...

U Prepare Breakfast And Serve It In Front Of Me, And Kiss My Forhead N Said : "U Better Be Quick, Is's Gonna Be Late.."

When U Were 30 Yrs Old, I Said

I LoveU...

U Said: "If U Really Love Me, Please Come Back Early After Work.."

When U Were 40 Yrs Old, I Said

I LoveU...

U Were Cleaning The Dining Table And Said: "Ok Dear, But It's Time For U To Help Our Child With His/Her Revision.." 

When U Were 50 Yrs Old, I Said

I LoveU...

U Were Knitting And U Laugh At Me...

When U Were 60 Yrs Old, I Said

I LoveU...

U Smile At Me..  

When U Were 70 Yrs Old. I Said

I LoveU...

We Sitting On The Rocking Chair With Our Glasses On. I'M Reading Your Love Letter That U Sent To Me 50 Yrs Ago.

With Our Hand Crossing Together..

When U Were 80 Yrs Old,U Said U Love Me!!!

I Didn't Say Anything But Cried...

That Day Must BeThe Happiest Day Of MyLife!

Because U Said U Love Me!!!

Please Appreciate Your Loved Ones. Say

"I Love You"

To Them When U Have The Chance Now!!!

RAVI MANIK…

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 20:30 | 20/Dec/2007 | 6 Comment(s)
KNOW YOUR VALUE

Know ur VALUE


A well-know speaker started off his seminar by holding up a 100/-Rs. Note. In the room of 200, he asked, Who would like this 100/-Rs. Note? Hands started going up. He said, I am going to give this 100/-Rs. To one of you, but first, let me do this. He proceeded to crumple up the 100/-Rs.note. He then asked, Who still wants it?Still the hands were up in the air. Well, he replied, What if I do this? And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty, Now, who still wants it?Still the hands went into the air. My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth Rs.100/-. Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumbled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way, We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who


DO LOVE you. The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or who we know, but by WHO WE ARE and WHOSE WE ARE. You are special – Don’t EVER forget it.


RAVI…

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 15:18 | 4/Dec/2007 | 9 Comment(s)
THAT'S LOVE

That's Love

If you love some one because you think that he or she is really gorgeous ....

Then it's not love. It’s  " Infatuation "

If you love some one because you think that you shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ...

then it's not love.. it's  "Compromise"

If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ...

Then it's not love. It’s  "Inferiority complex"

If you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings ...

Then it's not love. It’s  "Charity"

If you love some one because you share every thing with him ...

Then it's not love... it's   "Friendship"

BUT...

If you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him that's    "LOVE"

If you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets...

That’s    "LOVE"

If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to ...

that's    "LOVE"

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 15:45 | 7/Nov/2007 | 4 Comment(s)
HAPPY DHANTERASS

Dear Friend's ,



My small gift to you all.


I dont know whether we'll get bonus for this Diwali,

but I'm giving it in Advance , ……


SPEND AS MUCH YOU CAN, WITH THIS!!!!



HERE'S MY ADVANCE SPECIAL DIWALI GIFT



FunAndFunOnly (www.mails4u.net.tc) - SridhaR



Plan and Buy whatever U Want...


No Formalitie


RAVI.

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 19:50 | 2/Nov/2007 | 3 Comment(s)
Trust Fevikwik Bond

Trust Fevikwik Bond


 


A Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared, so he asked his little daughter, “Sweetheart, Please hold my hand so that you don’t fall into the river.” The little girl said,  “No Dad. You hold my hand.”


“What’s the difference?” Asked the Puzzled Father.“There’s a big difference,“replied the little girl.


   “If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go.” 


    In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond, so hold the hands of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold urs….


The message is to short ………but carries a lot of


Feelings….!


Fevikwik Ka Bond Ho To Trust Strong Ho.


RAVI

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 18:25 | 13/Oct/2007 | 7 Comment(s)
Change Your Vision

Change your Vision


 There was a millionaire who was bothered by severe eye


 pain. He consulted so many physicians and was getting


his treatment done. He did not stop consulting galaxy


of medical experts; he consumed heavy loads of drugs


and underwent hundreds of injections.


          But the  ache persisted with great vigour than


Before . At last a monk who has supposed to be an


Expert in treating such patients was called for by the


Millionaire. The monk understood his problem and


Said that for sometime he should concentrate only on


green colours and not to fall his eyes on any other


colours. The millionaire got together a group of painters


and purchased barrels of green color and directed that


every object his eye was likely to fall to be painted in


green colour just as the monk had directed.


         When the monk came to visit him after few days,


the millionaire’s servants ran with buckets of  green


paints and poured on him since he was in red dress,


lest their master not see any other colour and eye


ache would come back.


         Hearing this monk laughed said “ If only you had


Purchased a pair of green spectacles, worth just a few


Rupees, you could have saved these walls and trees and


pots and all other articles and also could  have saved a


large share of his fortune. You cannot paint the world


green.” Lets us change our vision and the world will


appear accordingly. It is foolish to shape the world, let


us shape ourselves first.


Lets Change Our Vision..!! 


RAVI.

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